There is a power that comes when we counsel together as husband and wife, and as a family council.
When Joseph Smith approached Martin Harris he said, “Martin Harris, you have got to humble yourself before God this day, that you may obtain a forgiveness of your sins. If you do, it is the will of the Lord that you should look upon the plates…”
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Eight witnesses of the Book of Mormon. These were after the three witnesses |
After this was done, Joseph Smith told his parents, “you do not know how happy I am: the Lord has now cause the plates to be shown to three more besides myself…I feel as if I was relieved of a burden which was almost too heavy for me to bear, and it rejoices my soul that I am not any longer to be entirely alone in this world.”
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from lds.org |
My husband and I have grown a lot since the beginning of this Marriage class. When we first got married I presumed that because we were both returned missionaries we automatically had the same goals and patterns in life. Well, for some part, we did. But, I could not ever understand my husband when he told me I do not really talk to him about the things of my heart. I seriously thought we were doing better, but our perpetual, ongoing, arguments started to be seen by the children, until. Our first date for this class’ assignment began with our first official companionship inventory. This a time when missionary companionships come together and reflect on how the week went. We both did it with our companions on our missions, but for some reason we did not do it ourselves.
First, we prayed for the spirit to teach us what to say, and then we delved into our hearts’ concerns. It turns out that there is peace even when a concern is not fully resolved. We set boundaries and shared our love for each other. Respect and love has grown, but what stands out to me is how much my husband is looking out for my feelings more than I remember, even before we were married. Our marriage and family council is a work in progress, but I realize it’s importance, especially for our family.